Hello!!! men do you think I'm not gonna talk? Domestic violence is not for me.
Just because you're stronger doesn't mean you can do what ever you want to.
People always talk about domestic violence and see it as a mental illness, jealousy, pressure, so on, but what we are doing to stop it. It's funny how we talk ourselves in group of the problem and give opinions as how we would solve the situation. Even we say "if I were her I wouldn’t allowed him to raise his voice at me." The truth of the matter is that when you're in those shoes do not know what to do just because you love him. Furthermore we start to blame our self for everything.
According to the National Domestic Violence hotline Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner. It can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure or wound someone. Would you tolerated all this? I don't think so.
Men don’t get me wrong but remember came from a woman and the fact that they are strong does not mean you can abuse. Furthermore your wife who is reading this remembers that you are a flower and as such should be treated. All in all you're the only that can stop the abuse.
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